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IN THE COURT OF APPEAL (CIVIL DIVISION)
ON APPEAL FROM CANTERBURY COUNTY COURT
(His Honour Judge Russell-Vick QC/Mr Justice Johnson)
Royal Courts of Justice Strand London WC2A 2LL Wednesday, 27th September 2000 |
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B e f o r e :
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IN THE MATTER OF S (CHILDREN) |
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Smith Bernal Reporting Limited, 180 Fleet Street,
London EC4A 2HD
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The Respondent did not appear.
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Crown Copyright ©
Wednesday, 27th September 2000
"The father I find to be a person capable of manipulating other people. Whether it is deliberate or whether it is just a question of his personality I know not; but I am satisfied that he was the dominant figure in this marriage. I cannot find, because there is no independent evidence about it which is admissible - although there are documents in the bundle which I have seen but the authors have not been called to give evidence - that this was a particularly violent relationship. I suspect that it probably was, and that the applicant father in this case, being as I have said a manipulative individual, also likes to have his own way. He is the stronger personality of the two, although I am quite satisfied that the respondent herself is on occasions able to respond in like manner.
The actual break-down of the relationship was, as I find, really an emotional problem, probably brought about by what I have said is a suspicion of some violence between them, and it is not the over-riding factor."
"The father and mother had tried to make detailed arrangements for the imminent Christmas holidays, but that was unsuccessful. I do not find it necessary to decide how to allocate responsibility for that, except to say that having heard the mother it seemed to me that her proposals were sensible in that they recognised that a move to a situation in which J was spending half the holiday with his father was one that needed to be approached cautiously.
However, what then happened was, in my judgment, absolutely unforgivable. Having listened to the father address me this afternoon, and having watched and listened to his questioning of the mother, I find him to be arrogant and domineering. His approach to the mother in his questioning was overbearing. Her reaction was that of a woman who is still very frightened indeed of him and I am in absolutely no doubt but that the anxiety which she portrayed so vividly in court was not put on for this purpose but represents her true feelings.
The father is a man who clearly wants to have his own way ... not having got the form of order that he wanted he decided not to see the children at all. His attitude seems to me to have been that if he was not to see the children on his terms then he would not see them at all, and that is why the children have not seen their father since 10th December last year, it being now 15th May."