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ON APPEAL FROM EXETER COUNTY COURT
HIS HONOUR JUDGE TYZACK QC
(LOWER COURT No. EX34/2009)
Strand, London, WC2A 2LL |
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B e f o r e :
(SIR NICHOLAS WALL)
LADY JUSTICE ARDEN
and
LORD JUSTICE WILSON
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In the matter of T (a child) |
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Miss Tina Cook (instructed by Michelmores, Exeter) appeared on behalf of the First and Second Respondents, the adopters.
Mr Dafydd Griffiths (instructed by Tozers, Newton Abbot) appeared on behalf of the Third Respondent, the child, by his guardian ad litem.
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Lord Justice Wilson:
"[The appellant] will need to develop a collaborative and constructive approach to working with any adopters and she will need to affirm their primary role in [N's] life as his psychological parents. This will not only help [N] develop a strong bond with his new carers and promote beneficial contact but will also help [the appellant] move on from her inevitable sense of sadness and loss ...
In our view, contact between [the appellant] and [N] should be maintained. It is vital that any prospective adopters are prepared for this eventuality and [the appellant] is given the support she needs to enable her to manage and maintain her side of the contact arrangements…
In our view direct contact post-placement is capable of working successfully if [the appellant] is able to acknowledge her changed role in [N's] life, support the adoptive placement and is given proper ongoing preparation and support."
"Consideration will be given to twice yearly direct contact between [N] and his maternal grandmother, if [she] can meet the conditions necessary for this to be a positive and stabilising experience for [N]... In short, [she] will need to demonstrate that she is able to:
• accept the adopters as new psychological parents
• affirm the adopters
• work constructively with the adopters
• relinquish any perception of herself in a role as parent
• relate positively to [N]
• validate the adoptive placement
• contain potential emotions, e.g. guilt, anger and anxiety.
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[She] will be offered some direct contact with [N] if she can meet the conditions detailed above. This is in recognition of her being the only available custodian of information in respect of [N's] birth family."
"If [N] is placed for adoption it is my opinion that direct contact of twice yearly with twice yearly indirect contact (prior to direct occurring) would be in [N's] best interests if his maternal grandmother can demonstrate a willingness to accept the situation and validate the adoptive placement.
Clearly it will be necessary for the local authority to work with [her] to advise and support her when decisions about future contact are made."
"Like many adoptive parents [the applicants] were a little concerned initially about the prospect of direct contact with birth families. Through the assessment process and preparation course, they changed in their viewpoint, to accept the need in certain cases for contact to be direct, and were very supportive of the idea of indirect contact. When it came to specifics for [N], it was clear that direct contact with birth parents would not be possible… However, they did have a meeting with [the] maternal grandmother, which was a very emotive meeting. They have agreed to participate in letter box contact with her [partly because she] is likely to be the only link he may have with his birth family… [They] were also prepared to consider [her] having direct contact with [N] at some point over the coming years -- but obviously this would need to be conditional upon both families' situations at the time, and ensuring that all parties felt the time was right. [They] would want to ensure that it would be a positive meeting for [N], and to ensure that this is the case, an assessment of [her] and her circumstances would need to be made nearer the time. However, they are happy, in the interim to continue with indirect contact …and to let [her] know how he is getting on."
"She has just sadly been the victim of a grave mistake, a misunderstanding, a mismanagement of information, it is impossible to conclude exactly what has gone wrong. It may be that the grandmother herself (inaudible) in this situation, all the distress this has caused."
"The imposition on prospective adopters of orders for contact with which they are not in agreement is extremely, and remains extremely, unusual."
In her energetic submissions Miss Evans suggests that that statement may now not in such absolute terms represent the law; and she cites to us the judgment of this court in Re P (Placement Orders: Parental Consent) [2008] EWCA Civ 535, [2008] 2 FLR 625, in particular at [147]. The judgment certainly heralds somewhat greater flexibility in the attitude of the court to contact following adoption in certain cases. But the problem for Miss Evans is that my Lord's statement in Re R was cited with full approval in the very recent decision of this court in Oxfordshire County Council v X, [2010] EWCA Civ 581, [2010] 2 FCR 355, at [8], and still reflects the general approach. In my view there was no measurable chance that, were the application to have continued, the result would have been the imposition upon unwilling adopters of any actual order for contact.
Lady Justice Arden:
"…what I have understood from both Miss Priddis [for the appellant] and Miss Jeffrey is that because of this application and because of this litigation these adoptive parents cannot find it within themselves to commit themselves fully and emotionally to [N]s' parentage. That means that every day that goes by that this litigation continues that [N] does not have carers who can fully enable themselves to engage and bond with [N]. Therefore this situation is so utterly tragic for [N] that I thought it right to deal with this matter today. I quite understand that Mrs T did not come to Court today expecting a final decision."
Sir Nicholas Wall P:
Order: Appeal dismissed