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You are here: BAILII >> Databases >> England and Wales Family Court Decisions (High Court Judges) >> Q v Q (No 3) [2016] EWFC 5 (28 January 2016) URL: http://www.bailii.org/ew/cases/EWFC/HCJ/2016/5.html Cite as: [2016] EWFC 5, [2017] 1 FLR 438 |
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Sitting at the ROYAL COURTS OF JUSTICE
Strand, London, WC2A 2LL |
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B e f o r e :
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Q v Q (No 3) |
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Ms Lucy Sprinz (instructed by Goodman Ray) for the respondent mother
Hearing dates: 29 October, 2 November 2015
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Crown Copyright ©
Sir James Munby, President of the Family Division :
The background
The final hearing
The expert reports
"Still denies huge elements of the offence and struggles to see things from others perspectives. He blames the offence on his partner and has also tried to victim blame as his nephew was naughty and had had sex education already."
On 30 March 2010 it records this:
"Prior to his incarceration I had commenced the one to one sex offending work. [He] presented as difficult to engage at times and he clearly minimises his offending. He would attempt to put barriers up in supervision to divert from the offence focused work being undertaken. Continues to demonstrate cognitive deficits and clear that he would benefit from work in relation to denial of his offending. Complete lack of victim empathy and clear inconsistencies when we broke his version of events down.
The circumstances of the current offence raise concerns about the defendant's thinking process which clearly reflects elements of distortion amongst other things. He states that he did not know the law of this country, suggesting what he did could have been acceptable elsewhere. Additionally, it was apparent from interview that there was a deficit relative to consequential thinking. Further, the issues surrounding his marital relationship is indicative of his poor problem solving skills and seeming inability to with regard to problem solving skills."
"In light of not being able to fully address his offending behaviour [he] is assessed as a medium risk of serious harm to children and his current risk assessment is as follows:
Who is at risk
(1) Children
What is the nature of the risk
(1) Offences of a sexual nature
When is the risk likely to be greatest
Consider the timescale and indicate whether risk is immediate or not. Consider the risks in custody as well as on release.
(1) When sexually frustrated, [he] not in a relationship at present, therefore risk may be heightened. Through PSR stage arid initial interviews has suggested he masturbates frequently and was sexually frustrated around the time of the index offence. His claims he was "just very horny" on night of index offence are worrying, and statements that he had no sexual attraction to the victim, leading to the suggestion that he was just overcome and 'had' to masturbate even in the presence, of the victim. This is indicative of risk to future possible victims and is not currently showing a willingness to explore the reasons for the offence.
What circumstances are likely to increase risk
Describe factors, actions, events which might increase level of risk, now and in the future.
(1) Unsupervised contact with children (own and/or others), continued minimisation and inability to acknowledge motivations behind offence
What factors are likely to reduce the risk
Describe factors, actions, and events which may reduce or contain the level of risk. What has previously stopped him/her?
Completion of offence-focussed work (will have to be one-to-one with interpreter), not having unsupervised contact with children."
""I decided to masturbate to the boy as I was so aroused. Couldn't stop myself. It was totally wrong. A child of that age should not have experienced that as it might affect him for the rest of his life".
[He] eventually accepted that he had taken the boy's clothes off, opened his own zip fly, placed his penis between the cheeks of his nephew's bottom and moved up and down on him until ejaculating onto his back."
He also records the father's explanation that "it was an accident."
"Many individuals experience sexual thoughts and feelings about children but are able to stay in control via the influence of internal inhibitors (their conscience) and the knowledge that what they are thinking is inappropriate and wholly wrong. It is the power of inhibitory control and effective protection that prevents abuse occurring. By his own admission, [he] was out of control when he sexually abused his 12 year old nephew having overcome both internal and external inhibitors.
[He] displays worrying personality characteristics associated with the child sexual offender. I consider him to be emotionally lonely; having little or no self esteem; poor self management / coping skills; poor intimacy / relationship skills; distorted thinking; sexual preoccupation / entitlement and portraying an external locus of control. Given his poor progress in Probation supervision to date, I would assess that, at best, the risk he poses to children (including his 3 year old son) is Medium whilst subject to Probation oversight. Once he completes his period of supervision the level of risk might increase should his circumstances deteriorate further; if he has failed to develop appropriate plans and strategies with which to prevent relapse to previous sexually abusive behaviour, and, he once again overcomes inhibitors.
As the behaviour of perpetrators who sexually abuse male children is known to be very addictive, the risk posed by [him] with regard to any contact with a child(ren) could only be managed within a professionally supervised setting."
"Still demonstrates poor victim empathy, maintaining that victim … would not have been upset by offence, rather he would have thought it was continuation of play fighting. [He] finds material difficult due to his 'shame' and consequently difficulty in talking about offence. Have discussed with [him] that this is limiting his ability to engage"
"He acknowledges that at the time of the offence he was feeling sexually frustrated and was under stress due to problems in his marriage. However, he maintains that he fantasised about his wife during the offence, therefore minimising his behaviour due to maintaining he did not have any sexual thoughts in relation to his nephew. During this session [he] struggled to recognise the impact that this offence has had on his victim, as he stated that the victim would have thought the offence was part of a "play-fight'. Work has been done around perspective taking, but it is apparent that there is still significant work to be achieved around victim empathy.
… It remains "early-days" in relation to his progress in relation to addressing his sexual offending behaviour, however he is demonstrated improved motivation in this area. Consequently, at this stage of treatment he remains a medium risk of serious harm to children, the nature of which is sexual offending. Should [he] continue to improve his willingness to talk openly about his offending and complete the Sex Offender Treatment Workbook, he will be working towards reducing this level of harm."
"If a decision is made that direct contact should be allowed between [him] and his son, it is essential that such contact be professionally supervised as recommended by Mr Smith within his assessment of [him]. In the interests of the child, contact should take place within a reasonable travelling distance of M's home. This would give [the father] an indication as to the area in which his estranged wife and children live and may open up the opportunity for [him] to discover the address of the family home thus placing [the mother], her daughter and son at risk from him.
With regard to indirect contact; if telephone contact is permitted between father and son, and due to the risk of him speaking inappropriately to M, any such telephone conversations would need to be monitored, via speaker phone. [The mother] maintains that fear of her estranged husband is such that having to monitor conversations between M and his father would cause her distress. There would also be the concern that M, not realising the need to prevent his father knowing where he lives, could be encouraged by [him] to reveal his address, or information which would assist [him] in identifying the area in which the family lives.
Contact via letter or card might be considered as a possibility. However, any such mail would need to be sent via an address other than [the mother's] and should also be monitored for inappropriate content. This is sometimes possible using the Local Authority as a medium, but, as my understanding is that the Local Authority do not have any involvement with this family, this is unlikely to be an option.
Taking into account the opinion passed by the Judge in respect of 'the effect (of any contact) on the primary carer' I would offer the view that any contact [he] has with M would have a deleterious effect on [the mother] and would thus have a negative impact on her ability to parent her son and daughter.
It was suggested to [her], ways in which she can talk to her son about his father when he reaches an age where he becomes curious. Discussion also ensued about the importance of M benefitting from positive role models within the family; [she] informed me that she and her family remain in close contact with other family members, particularly those living in the UK and that M has a good relationship with his uncles."
Her overall conclusion was that:
"Whilst a decision as to whether contact should be allowed between [him] and his son M is the province of the Judge in these proceedings, in my professional opinion, and taking into account all of the above, I would suggest that the tensions caused by contact at this time would not be in the best interests of the child."
"[His] arrest and re-conviction for a further sexually abusive offence against a child in 2012 within days of the completion of his Community Order represents continuing evidence of his inability to stay in control of his sexual feelings.
… not only did the 2012 sexually abusive offence take place within days of the completion of [his] 3 year Community Order but within weeks of the planned final hearing for contact with his son and whilst still subject to the Sex Offender Register. In this author's opinion such behaviour illustrates how [he] prioritises the strong and invasive sexual feelings and thoughts he has about children over and above other matters which he deems to be important to him, displaying loss of control and an inability to remain inhibited."
He went on to express the view that:
"As past behaviour often predicts future behaviour, until [he] knows and understands how he makes his offending happen, he will never be in a position to draw up alternative plans and strategies with which to avoid further sexually abusive offences against children."
"The victims of the sexually abusive behaviour for which [he] has been convicted were both male children previously known to him and were minors. To this end, and from the information to hand, the author would concur with the victim profile suggested by [her]. Clearly her son's special educational needs and that he is a child known to [him] increases his vulnerability to being groomed and abused."
Asked about the level of risk posed by the father, Mr Smith said:
"[His] reconviction confirms the addictive pattern of behaviour mentioned [in] this author's report dated 28/3/11. This, together with the fact that he remains untreated, further increases the risk [he] presents to children in general and to his son in particular thereby militating against direct contact with his 6.5 year old son. [He] presents a real and present risk to male children in their minority.
Given this author's professional knowledge and experience and taking account of [his] unwillingness to share the sexual feelings and thoughts he has about children, indirect contact whether via telephone / letters / cards / photographs may also pose dangers to his son by feeding [his] sexual fantasies and imaginings of male children in their minority. This author is also aware of the anxieties and consternation indirect contact poses for [the mother]."
"In an attempt to be constructive this author suggests that [his] best way forward is to: (i) study the English language to a meaningful standard in order to improve his ability to communicate effectively then (ii) seek gainful employment once his command of the English language is sufficient enough (iii) Renew pursuit of a programme of appropriate intervention once he has accrued the means with which to fund this. Meanwhile [he] will be well advised to use the services of the Police Officer responsible for the Sex Offender Register and consult the 'Stop it Now' helpline when risky feelings and thoughts about children invade his functioning."
"Should supervised contact be considered, as stated in my initial report, supervisors for such contact would necessarily need to have significant understanding of the way child abusers groom not only the child, but also other adults who might otherwise protect the child. Experience informs that in the majority of cases where the parent is a convicted child abuser, local authorities are extremely reluctant to accommodate contact for fear of placing other children at risk. Therefore, [he] would need to locate a private agency that would be willing to offer such a service. Again there may be restrictions due to his status as a convicted child abuser. [The mother] reports in her statement that [he] has not offered any suggestions as to how supervised contact may be managed.
Supervised contact would, for the benefit of M, need to be arranged in a locality which did not involve him in making long journeys, particularly as he is now attending school. This would therefore allow [the father] information of the locality in which his son and ex-wife currently reside, something [she] is at pains to prevent. Having been diagnosed recently as autistic, changes to his routine would be difficult for M to manage; therefore trying to establish contact may well have a detrimental effect on the child.
[The father] initially named family members who he considered appropriate to facilitate indirect contact, in the form of written communication, between himself and his son. [The mother] was not in agreement with the people named by [him] as she fears they will pass on information to him as to her whereabouts. Were telephone contact to be considered, it would be necessary for [his] calls to his son to be monitored which would necessitate [her] having to listen in to the calls. On the basis that she suffered physical, sexual and emotional abuse during her marriage to [him], this would be inappropriate and very possibly, extremely upsetting for her."
"Considering all of the above, and taking into account the continuing risk posed by [him], it is unlikely that contact with his father would offer any positive benefit to M and I therefore stand by the conclusion I reached in my initial report that contact between [the father] and his son is not recommended."
The police records
The father's case
The mother's case
Discussion
"the power to make such an order is … to be used with great care and sparingly and is … generally to be seen as a weapon of last resort in cases of repeated and unreasonable applications."
"In an appropriate case [the judge] can summarily dismiss the application as being, if not groundless, lacking enough merit to justify pursuing the matter."
In my judgment, that will give the mother – and M – adequate protection.
Conclusion