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SITTING AT THE ROYAL COURTS OF JUSTICE
B e f o r e :
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LONDON BOROUGH OF Y |
Applicant |
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(1) A MOTHER AND (2) A FATHER AND (3) T AND Z (By their Children's Guardian) |
Respondents |
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Ms Elpha LeCointe instructed by Wilsons & Co for the first respondent mother
Ms Sophie Prolingheuer instructed by Duncan Lewis for the second respondent father
Ms Jacinta Lonnen of Eszinazi & Co for the third and fourth respondent children
Hearing Dates: 26-29 June 2023
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Crown Copyright ©
The Recorder:
Introduction
The Proceedings In Outline
The Local Authority shall serve the final threshold document, as agreed with the Mother, on [the father]. [The father] must respond to the document by 4pm on 17 October 2022. If he does not respond, he shall have to seek the permission of the court to dispute the Local Authority's threshold.
AND UPON the Father continuing to refuse to engage in proceedings, or instruct solicitors, but saying to the parties in email correspondence that he opposes the final care plan and wishes for contact with the children.
The 'Final' Hearing
"It is extremely late in the day and the Local Authority is greatly concerned about the degree of delay in this case. [T] is now four years old and further delay will further reduce the prospects of successful adoption. The court is respectfully reminded that the amorphism 'nothing else will do' does not dictate that it is necessarily in the child's interests to either be cared for by natural family member (see Re W (Adoption: Approach to Long-Term Welfare) [2017] 2 FLR 31), nor that an extension of the timetable is automatically justified to assess a family member at the last minute. The Local Authority may continue to progress viability and special guardianship orders after these proceedings have been concluded. At this stage, there is no positive viability assessment of either family member. They are not 'realistic options' before the Court. The children's welfare dictates that the final hearing proceed."
"The mother strongly opposes the local authorities care plan for the children and would seek to retain care of the children.
The mother would not oppose [an adjournment] for the purpose of assessment of extended family members. The mother was also in agreement with the guardian that an assessment is required in relation to [T].
The mother would be opposed to an adjournment for the sole purpose of an assessment of the father or the paternal grandparents."
"a. For the final hearing to be adjourned and his Part 25 application for further
Parenting assessment allowed;
b. For the final hearing to be adjourned and for him to be permitted to file and
serve evidence, including in respect of challenging threshold;
c. If the court is not minded to deal with the above applications as preliminary matters for the court to determine threshold and consider his Part 25 application for further assessment after the evidence has been tested;
d. To refuse the local authority application for care and placement orders and leave the children in the care of the mother with all necessary and relevant support and assistance, with the children to spend time with the father. He would accept this is supervised at a contact centre in the first instance."
"[F] seeks permission to dispute the threshold – this is required as a result of an order of HHJ Karp that he could not do so without permission as a result of his failure to file a response document. The guardian's view is that as he was not instructing solicitors at that time and was not present at the hearing it would be reasonable to allow him to challenge matters within the threshold document if he wishes to do so. This should not in itself justify adjournment of the final hearing, and could be dealt with at the listed final hearing.
The guardian is concerned that with a plan presented to the court for placement for adoption, all possible avenues within the family must be explored. There is a gap in the evidence, in that the paternal grandmother and paternal aunt are said to wish to put themselves forward but no viability assessments are available. The local authority has been asked to produce these. In addition, the local authority will need to urgently liaise with the social workers at LB XY who are dealing with [F's] older children. This is because F says that LB XY have asked him to care for his four older children because of concerns about their mother, and he is doing so. It is not clear how or why the two local authorities have taken such differing approaches to [F] as a potential carer and information is needed urgently as to the position of LB XY and how they have reached this conclusion. If any written assessments, case notes, or child protection or child in need meeting minutes and reports are available, those would be helpful, but at the least the social worker will need to liaise with the LB XY social worker and produce a case note or updating statement to assist the court.
Without viability assessments in relation to the children's paternal aunt and grandmother the guardian is not in a position to make a recommendation to the court that "nothing else will do" and that a plan of placement for adoption should be pursued. The father should have engaged solicitors and put forward these potential carers much earlier, and he has caused delay to planning for the children, which is highly regrettable. However, this does not mean that [T] and [Z] should miss out on a possibility of care within their birth family, and their paternal relatives must now be explored.
It appears possible that the final hearing may need to be adjourned and relisted for this reason. If this is the case, the guardian is likely to recommend that the additional time be used to obtain an assessment of T's needs from a child psychiatrist/psychologist."
a. there was updated evidence from the foster carer about T's behaviour which had caused the foster placement to come to a premature end. This evidence had not been seen by Mr Dooley, the Guardian or the parties.
b. The Guardian and the mother submitted that T needed to be the subject of an assessment by a child psychologist. This evidence was said to be critical to the placement order application. It was suggested it may raise the possibility of different care plans for the girls and raised, for the first time, that it may not be inevitable they are placed together.
c. There were potential paternal family members who may be carers who had not been the subject of viability assessments. This was largely disputed by the applicant who considered they had made proportionate searches.
d. There was missing evidence from the social services department of another London Borough who were involved in the care of the father's four children from another relationship (these children are aged 5-12).
"Concerns regarding the parenting of other children
4. Both [M] and [F] have had social services involvement with their older children [C4]:
4.1 On the 28.01.18 care proceedings concluded in respect of [M] first child, [E]. [E] was made subject to a Supervision Order to A CC and a Special Guardianship Order was granted to [E's] Paternal Aunt. Care proceedings were issued by the London Borough of Z due to concerns about the parents capacity to care for [E] due to [M's] learning difficulties, domestic violence and illicit drug use.
The parents exposed the children to emotional and physical harm due to incidents of domestic abuse between the parents
5.1 On the 17.04.19 [M] disclosed that she was assaulted by [F ] in the 16.04.19. [M ] reported she was hit on the head with a glass saucepan lid which broke on impact.
5.2 On the 12.07.19, [M] called the police and reported that she had stabbed [F] although she had not actually done so.
5.3 On the 09.08.19 [ M ] reported she had been kicked in the genitial area. [ M] was inconsistent when the incident was discussed with her (but confirms it is true) and appeared scared and nervous to discuss the incident.
5.4 On the 10.02.21, [ F] and [ M ] went to the police station after a verbal argument in the supermarket where [ M] had belittled the Mother in front of T. As a result [ M ]was upset and screaming whilst T was present.
5.5 On the 14.06.21, the Local Authority received a referral from maternal aunt that [ M ]is a victim of domestic abuse by [ F ]and that his behaviour is very controlling.
5.6 On the 01.01.22, police referral was received due an incident whereby [ M] called the police because [ F] had taken [ T] to his sister's house and left her there from 24.12.21 to 01.01.22 and would not allow [ M ]access to her daughter.
5.7 On the 05.01.22, [ M ] informed the social worker that she has separated from [ F] due to his violent and abusive nature [C34].
The children are at risk of neglect due to the parents non engagement with professionals to address concerns
6.1 On the 21.09.21 neither parent attended the initial child protection conference where [ T ] was made subject to a child protection plan under the category of neglect. The Mother was subject to the control of [ F] and he did not wish to engage with the Local Authority and, as a result, the Mother felt unable to properly engage.
6.3 Neither parent attended the PLO meeting scheduled for 01.11.21. The Mother was subject to the control of [ F] and he did not wish to engage with the Local Authority and, as a result, the Mother felt unable to properly engage.
6.4 On the 09.12.21, [ F] attended the social workers office to inform the social worker that he does not want to work with social services.
6.5 On the 10.12.21 neither parents attended the review Child Protection Conference. The Mother was subject to the control of [ F ] and he did not wish to engage with the Local Authority and, as a result, the Mother felt unable to properly engage.
6.6 Neither parent attended the core group meetings on 28.09.21, 21.10.21 and 18.11.21. The Mother was subject to the control of [ F ]and he did not wish to engage with the Local Authority and, as a result, the Mother felt unable to properly engage.
The children have suffered and is at risk of suffering emotional harm and neglect due to [ F ] history of aggressive beviour towards professionals
7.1 On the 21.10.21, the midwife described [ F] as aggressive during a telephone call when requesting for his name to be put in the maternity book.
7.2 On 9.12.21 [ F] presented aggressively towards staff at Children's Services reception.
7.3 There has been various emails from [ F ]to the social worker where he presents as aggressive and intimidatory. On 10.12.21 and 12.12.21, [ F] sent the social worker emails and presented very aggressive and uncorporative." (sic)
"The second practical and procedural point goes to the formulation of threshold and proposed findings of fact. The schedule of findings in the present case contains, as we shall see, allegations in relation to the father that "he appears to have" lied or colluded, that various people have "stated" or "reported" things, and that "there is an allegation". With all respect to counsel, this form of allegation, which one sees far too often in such documents, is wrong and should never be used. It confuses the crucial distinction, once upon a time, though no longer, spelt out in the rules of pleading and well understood, between an assertion of fact and the evidence needed to prove the assertion. What do the words "he appears to have lied" or "X reports that he did Y" mean? More important, where does it take one? The relevant allegation is not that "he appears to have lied" or "X reports"; the relevant allegation, if there is evidence to support it, is surely that "he lied" or "he did Y"."
"It is important that the planning in the future for these children, particularly C, is based upon as correct a view of what happened to R as possible. It is not in the children's interests, or in the interests of justice, or in the interests of the two adults, for the finding to be based on an erroneous basis. It is also in the interests of all of the children that are before this court for the mother's role to be fully understood and investigated."
"… amongst other factors, the following are likely to be relevant and need to be borne in mind before deciding whether or not to conduct a particular fact finding exercise:
(a) the interests of the child (which are relevant but not paramount)
(b) the time that the investigation will take;
(c) the likely cost to public funds;
(d) the evidential result;
(e) the necessity or otherwise of the investigation;
(f) the relevance of the potential result of the investigation to the
future care plans for the child;
(g) the impact of any fact finding process upon the other parties;
(h) the prospects of a fair trial on the issue;
(i) the justice of the case."
a. Pursuant to section 31 (2) it is only if the 'threshold' test is found by the court to have been met, that the court can proceed to consider care and supervision orders, powers which contain very significant interferences in the Article 8 ECHR rights of family life.
b. There is no likely permissible statutory construction of the relevant sections of the 1989 Act which permit an interpretation of 'reading in' a 'permission' test.
c. The application for a placement order is also subject to the gateway of threshold being crossed and a placement order has been described as requiring 'very exceptional circumstances'.
d. The father has common law rights. The rules of fairness apply. Subject to the case management, he is entitled to the protections offered by the common law to a fair hearing.
e. The father has Article 6 ECHR rights to a fair hearing. Those rights are absolute.
f. The over-riding objective found in rule 1.1 of the Family Procedure Rules 2010 applies and that requires me to consider these proceedings justly having regard to any welfare issues involved.
g. The demands of sections 32 (4) and (5) of the 1989 Act must weigh heavily on any court considering granting permission of this nature, to a parent in circumstances of non-engagement.
h. Pursuant to section 1(2) of the 1989 Act, the court is obliged to have regard to the general principle that any delay in determining the question of T and Z's upbringing is likely to prejudice their welfare.
Other Children's Services Involvement
1. Both the Mother and the Father have / have had social services involvement in respect of their older children:
1.1 On the 28.01.18 care proceedings concluded in respect of the Mother's first child, 'E'. 'E was made subject to a Supervision Order to A CC and a Special Guardianship Order was granted to E's Paternal Aunt. Care proceedings were issued by the London Borough of Y due to concerns about the parents capacity to care for E due to the Mother's learning difficulties, domestic violence and illicit drug use [A8].
1.2 The Father's four oldest children were made subject to Child Protection Plans under the category of neglect in September 2020 by LB ZH [C9].
1.3 [F]'s 4 elder children are currently open to LB ZH children's social care Child Protection planning and pre-proceedings [C24, Updating Statement 26.6.23].
Assessment of Parenting Capacity
2. The Mother has mild learning difficulties and attention deficit disorder. Her personal limitations restrict the degree to which she can provide the children with consistently good care. In the absence of 'live-in' or '24-hour' support, the children are at risk of suffering significant harm by virtue of the gaps in the Mother's parenting.
[Not to be determined at this hearing]
3. The Father is unable to put the needs of T and Z above his own and is thus unlikely to meet their emotional needs. The children are at risk of suffering significant harm due to the Father's oppositional attitude, lack of awareness, rigid thinking and inability to compromise.
[Not to be determined at this hearing]
4. The Father denied his paternity of Z and, despite genetic testing confirming parentage, has never met Z. He has refused and/or failed to have contact with T since the Interim Care Order was made in January 2022 [C76].
Domestic Violence
5. The Children have suffered or are at risk of suffering significant emotional and/or physical harm due to incidents of domestic abuse and/or violence:
5.1 In the course of their 3-year relationship, the Mother was punched in the face, spat on, pushed and kicked by the Father [H2].
5.2 On or around 16.04.19, the Father assaulted the Mother by hitting her on the head with a saucepan lid which broke upon impact [A8, G37, H2].
5.3 On or around 09.08.19, the Father kicked the Mother in the genital area. This caused her to bleed heavily [A9, C6].
5.4 On or around 10.02.21, the parents attended a police station after a verbal argument. The Father had belittled the mother in front of T and his other children. The Mother was upset and screaming. T was present [A9, C34].
5.5 The Father was controlling of the Mother during their relationship. He would use denigrating and belittling language, utilising her learning needs as a means of exerting control [C11, G18].
5.6 On or around 24.12.21 the Father unilaterally took T to his sister's house and refused to return her to the Mother. He would not allow the Mother access to T [A10, G15, H2].
6. The Mother obtained a non-molestation order as against the Father on 5 December 2022. F failed to contest or respond to the Mother's application, despite being on notice of the same [H19].
Domestic Abuse: Alternative Case
7. In the alternative, the relationship between the parents was one characterised by volatility, arguments and/or conflict, often in the presence of T. The conflict was to such an extent that on occasion the parents would attend the police station or call the police to the home and make allegations against one another. The mere fact of the police callouts and allegations demonstrates the level of conflict in the relationship, likely to cause and/or risk significant emotional harm to the children [E98, E99].
Failure to Engage with Professionals
8. The children are at risk of neglect or other significant harm due to the parents' non-engagement with professionals:
8.1 Neither parent attended the initial child protection conference on 21.09.21 where T was made subject to a child protection plan under the category of neglect [A10, C34].
8.2 Neither parent attended the PLO meeting scheduled for 01.11.21 [A10, C34].
8.3 Neither parent attended the Review Child Protection Conference on 10.12.21 [A10, C34].
8.4 Neither parent attended the core group meetings on 28.09.21, 21.10.21 and 18.11.21 [A10, C34].
8.5 On or around 09.12.21, F attended the social workers office to inform the social worker that he did not want to work with social services [C34].
8.6 The Mother was subject to the control of the Father, who did not wish to engage with the Local Authority. As a result, the Mother felt unable to properly engage [A10].
Father's Hostility Towards Professionals
9. On or around 21.10.21, F was aggressive to staff at during a telephone call when requesting for his name to be put in the maternity book [C34].
10. On or around 9.12.21, F was aggressive towards staff including receptionist and duty Social Worker at Children's Services reception at XY House [C34].
11. On or around 1 January 2022, the Father actively resisted arrest at the parents' home, barging a police officer down the stairs with his left shoulder. The Father was further arrested and charged with assault on an emergency services worker [G11, G24].
12. F has sent a number of threatening and/or aggressive emails to professionals including the children's allocated social worker. By way of example, in an email to the social worker on 10 December 2021, he wrote:
'I am asking all my ancestors to help me and give me the strength to stay strong and protect me from a demon like you. The pain pain pain what you cause me, you will receive the same pain and if you escape this pain, what you cause me. I pray to God to give you the strength to keep you strong for you to keep your children strong when the pain this pains!!!! what you cause me start to walk all over your children. You have course me pain pain pain!!!!!!!!. This pain what you bring to me, you shall receive it back 10 times stronger than the pain what you cause me in my life. God is not sleeping and the wicked shall not prevail. Amen… You shall feel my pain.'" (sic)
"Under Article 8, any interference with the exercise of the right to respect for family life should be proportionate to its legitimate aim. There can be no greater interference than the permanent removal of a child. In YC v United Kingdom (2012) 55 EHRR 967, the ECtHR said (at paragraph 134):
"The Court reiterates that in cases concerning the placing of a child for adoption, which entails the permanent severance of family ties, the best interests of the child are paramount. In identifying the child's best interests in a particular case, two considerations must be borne in mind: first, it is in the child's best interests that his ties with his family be maintained except in cases where the family has proved particularly unfit; and secondly, it is in the child's best interests to ensure his development in a safe and secure environment. It is clear from the foregoing that family ties may only be severed in very exceptional circumstances and that everything must be done to preserve personal relations and, where appropriate, to 'rebuild' the family.""
The Witnesses and the Evidence
"M has been known to Social Services following the birth of her first child
E on [ ] April 2017. The incident precipitating services involvement was a serious burn suffered by E in 2017. There were concerns about the explanation M gave for the burn and the fact that there was a delay in her seeking medical attention. At this time M was in a domestically abusive relationship and was reported to be smoking cannabis excessively. Professionals also had concerns due to M having learning disabilities and was vulnerable as a result. Ms M had her child placed with a paternal aunt in [ ]. Subsequently [ ] initiated care proceedings, which ended with a special guardianship order being made to the paternal aunt. A Psychological Assessment was completed during the care proceedings by Dr Julia Heller on 28/08/17 which advised that M has mild learning disabilities and likely Attention Deficit Disorder. The assessment concluded that M would require extensive ongoing support and supervision in order to parent adequately. It further advised that M would need someone who would be present daily who could supervise her parenting at close quarters and be available to advise on important decisions.
T's first period of child protection planning 22/03/2019 – 17/02/2020:
On 29/10/2018 M came to the attention of the local authority when a referral was received from a midwife at A Hospital advising that M was pregnant with her second child, T from a relationship with F. T was made subject to a pre-birth child protection plan due to concerns in relation to M's first child E being removed because of a suspected non-accidental injury (NAI), domestic violence, and excess cannabis use by M.
During a health visitor's visit (17/04/2019) M disclosed that she was assaulted by F the previous night and was hit on the head with a glass saucepan lid which smashed and broke on impact. M also disclosed that this was not the first incident as when she commenced her relationship with F, he punched her in the face which resulted in an injury and bleeding. This incident was reported to the police however it did not progress due to the nature of the injuries to M not being consistent with her allegations. There was a further police report on 28/04/2019 where police attended M'S home to the sounds of a woman 'screaming'. On engaging police, M … did not account for her extreme reaction, and the police left the scene with no further action. This report of domestic violence 17/04/2019 appears to be the second report of DV made by M in her relationship with F . After T's birth professionals were concerned that M had the responsibility of caring for F's four children from a previous relationship, in addition to T. These 4 children were all under the age of ten-years-old, and professionals were concerned about M's ability to cope with parenting so many young children. In order to address this issue a family group conference (FGC) was arranged. The agreed plan from the FGC of the 24th June 2019 not to leave M with T without support in place.
5. Subsequently the local authority were concerned about the following incidents occurring between M and F: on the 11/07/2019 police were called as M reported stabbing F, on arrival F said that he'd cut his own fingers by accident whilst cooking; on the 25/07/2019 at midnight M and F attended a local police station to complain about their housing situation (overcrowded), F told police this was M's idea; on 09/08/2019 (see chronology), M called the ambulance service as she had been kicked in the groin and was bleeding heavily. Police attended the incident with the London Ambulance Service (LAS). F later explained that there was not an assault on M and her calling LAS was due to her tending to get anxious and call emergency services. She did not expect the police to come out on this occasion. When a social worker queried this incident with M was inconsistent with what happened and seemed scared and nervous about discussing the issue. These 3 significant incidents involving police, suggest that following T's birth there was some disharmony in the couple's relationship, and further that F appears to be controlling the explanation of the incidents.
On 13/06/2021, Police officers attended MGM's (T's adoptive maternal grandmother) home in response to an allegation of domestic abuse (coercion and control) perpetrated by F. The police report was made by T's auntie, [ ] on behalf of M. The allegations made to the police were as follows: (1) [ ] alleged her sister is undergoing domestic abuse by being controlled to keep her children by staying with the father (M's self-appointed carer) as she suffers with learning disabilities. [ ] explained that that she and (MGM), had been concerned that the F has been controlling M for a number of years, excluding her at times from family events and controlling her money. [ ] disclosed texts from F to M of a hurtful nature for example, "YOU ARE EMBARRASSING ME THE WAY YOU BEHAVE AND SLEEP WITH MEN, PEOPLE SEE ME ON THE STREET AND LOOK AT ME AS IF I AM LESSER THAN THEM BECAUSE I AM WITH YOU!" [ ] added that M had had her hair shaved by F, in a manipulative manner which I interpret as F subjugating M's wishes. [ ] told me that the hair was shaved so that M does not look attractive to other men. As a final part of the initial referral to social care [ ] reported being sent a video where M was carrying holding T and was visibly upset [reason unknown], and F was smiling and videoing her. I view this as a form of harassment, and an attempt by F to humiliate her, at a point of emotional vulnerability. When the Police spoke directly with M at the time of this referral, she denied the allegations to police and said it was a disagreement between her and F It is worrying that M failed to recognise F's behaviour towards her which is extremely controlling as abuse.
M will usually be quiet when F is speaking, and my concern is that she is not being heard over F who is very vocal. In my view this could be a tactic to keep her quiet and also imply that she does not have the intellect to speak or make sense due to her learning disabilities. It appears that F has made M believe that she cannot look after T without him and therefore she believes she must maintain her relationship with him in order to be able to continue to care for T. It is difficult for M to express her views about what may go on in her relationship with F due to fear that she might lose T as she previously lost her first child, E. This is a complex case as in my view M often does not disclose to the domestic abuse to professionals she suffers, or withdraws complaints, or F creates an alternative explanation to mask abuse as noted in paragraph 5.
The local authority has become increasingly concerned about the safety of T because the last time social workers were able to visit and see her was 18/06/2021, (until very recently I visited T 05/01/2022 at her paternal aunt's home) as F was preventing social workers access to the family home. In addition, T was withdrawn from nursery 20/09/2021. It should be balanced against this that a police welfare visit took place on 16/10/2021 and M brought T to see the health visitor in clinic on the 28/10/21, and no immediate safeguarding concerns were noted. Notwithstanding this, the local authority is unable to assess T's situation satisfactorily or protect her with such scant professional contact. To compound this lack of contact with T I worry that M, due to her vulnerability might not be able to protect herself from domestic abuse, therefore she will not be able to protect her daughter. And worryingly the parents have not engaged in the child protection process. As evidence of the parent's lack engagement they avoided attending an Initial Child Protection Case Conference on 21/09/2021, and core group meetings on 21/10/21, and 18/11/21.
The local authority's records reveal that F has a history of perpetrating domestic abuse to women in his life. F is known by LB XY in relation to repeated episodes of domestic violence, including controlling behaviour. F has been known to police regarding domestic violence since 2010 perpetrated to the mother of his older children (13 police reports dated 21/09/14; 01/07/15; 13/08/15; 01-02/02/16; 07/02/16; 09/08/17; 28/08/17; 10/11/17; 03/03/18; 04/09/18; 30/11/18; 11/01/19; 09/3/19;). In a core assessment of F's oldest child 'X' dated 06/09/2011 it is noted there are allegations about domestic violence made by 'X' s mother against F. These allegations dated back 2010. F denied any form of domestic violence or abuse and made counter allegation that his former partner was smoking cannabis, neglecting her children, and was making up the allegations so she could obtain her own accommodation."
"I do not accept that there was domestic violence in mine and M's relationship.
Myself and M were in a relationship for a long time and I cared about her deeply.
The health visitor met myself and M in 2019 and saw that we were in a happy relationship. I therefore do not accept the allegations made that I caused harm to M.
I did not hit M with a glass saucepan lid and I did not kick M in the genital area causing bleeding as the local authority have said. These things did not happen and I think it is very unfair that such allegations have been made against me.
Our family were on a child in need plan in 2019 however this was closed in 2020. This was closed due to the progress made while social services were involved. If the allegations made about me were true, I am sure social services would not have closed their involvement with our family. I attach at "Exhibit CH/1" letter from the local authority confirming the child in need case was closed.
I have made an application to challenge the local authority's threshold document.
I do not accept that I have put T and Z at risk as I have not been violent towards M. I therefore do not understand why the local authority need a risk assessment of me to be done before I can see T and Z. I have my older children in my care without a risk assessment."
I am applying for the Non Molestation order against my ex-partner [ F]
We were in a relationship for about three years, the relationship was very verbally abusive, he would belittle me in front of our daughter (T) using explicit language which caused her great upset and myself also.
Over a period of time F behaviour escalating to physical abuse , where I was punched in my face, spat on , pushed ,kicked and and this was also during my pregnancy.
The abuse was also financial where he would leave me with very little money and food for myself and would leave for hours at a time.
On one occasion in 2019 the police attended our address as F hit me over the head with a saucepan lid which broke. F stated to the police that I had learning difficulties and that I was hormonal because I was pregnant .Therefore this case was NFA.
F in December 2021 took out daughter and was refusing to return her to me, this caused me great stress as I am currently pregnant with our second child.
I have been placed in a Mother and Baby Foster placement to remain safe and free from the abuse that was perpetrator by F towards me.
The address is unknown to F and must not be disclosed to him.
Since I have been placed in foster care F has been trying to contact me setting up fake Facebook accounts and ringing me from Facebook Messenger , also sending numerous emails.
This causes me great stress and upset as also in pregnancy as I wish not to have this contact and would like a Non Molestation Order to prevent this happening.
I am really frightened that he will locate me and continue to harass me as I have blocked all my accounts and contacts but he is still manage to contact me when I called to speak to his sister who I have now blocked.
I urgently need this order to protect myself and my unborn [ ] and my daughter T." (sic)
M's mental health is stable and she does not have a personality disorder.
She has made very positive changes in her use of illicit drugs and refrained from Cannabis use in the last few years. This has reduced the risk issues to her child.
There remain significant concerns as to her capacity to protect herself from further abusive relationships and exploitation.
A further concern is her lack of engagement with Child Protection conferences.
She will require supervision for her parenting on a regular basis to protect her child or children from the potential for poor decision-making and judgments. This stems from her compromised intellectual functioning and general vulnerabilities.
The risk to her child/children are general and non-specific and relate to her compromised capacity to make competent judgments in relation to more complex parenting demands.
The Law In Respect of Fact Finding and Threshold
'[56] In the course of a necessarily long judgment covering a range of issues and a substantial body of evidence, where the threshold criteria are in issue, it is good practice to distil the findings that may have been made in previous paragraphs into one or two short and carefully structured paragraphs which spell out the court's finding on threshold identifying whether the finding is that the child "is suffering" and/or "is likely to suffer" significant harm, specifying the category of harm and the basic finding(s) as to causation.
[57] When making a finding of harm, it is important to identify whether the finding is of "significant harm" or simply "harm".
[58] A finding that the child "has suffered significant harm" is not a relevant finding for s 31, which looks to the "relevant date" and the need to determine whether the child "is suffering" or "is likely to suffer" significant harm.
"First, that the legal concept of proof on a balance of probabilities "must be applied with common sense", as Lord Brandon of Oakbrook said in The Popi M, Rhesa Shipping Co SA v Edmunds, Rhesa Shipping Co SA v Fenton Insurance Co Ltd [1985] 1 WLR 948, 956.
Secondly, that the court can have regard to the inherent probabilities: see Lady Hale in In re B (Children) (Care Proceedings: Standard of Proof)(CAFCASS intervening) [2008] UKHL 35, [2009] 1 AC 11, para 31. But this does not affect the legal standard of proof, as Lord Hoffmann emphasised in the same case (para 15): "There is only one rule of law, namely that the occurrence of the fact in issue must be proved to have been more probable than not. Common sense, not law, requires that in deciding this question, regard should be had, to whatever extent appropriate, to inherent probabilities. If a child alleges sexual abuse by a parent, it is common sense to start with the assumption that most parents do not abuse their children. But this assumption may be swiftly dispelled by other compelling evidence of the relationship between parent and child or parent and other children. It would be absurd to suggest that the tribunal must in all cases assume that serious conduct is unlikely to have occurred. In many cases, the other evidence will show that it was all too likely."
Thirdly, that the fact, if fact it be, that the respondent (here, the mother) fails to prove on a balance of probabilities an affirmative case that she has chosen to set up by way of defence, does not of itself establish the local authority's case."
"58. That a tribunal's Lucas self-direction is formulaic, and incomplete is unlikely to determine an appeal, but the danger lies in its potential to distract from the proper application of its principles. In these circumstances, I venture to suggest that it would be good practice when the tribunal is invited to proceed on the basis , or itself determines, that such a direction is called for, to seek Counsel's submissions to identify: (i) the deliberate lie(s) upon which they seek to rely; (ii) the significant issue to which it/they relate(s), and (iii) on what basis it can be determined that the only explanation for the lie(s) is guilt. The principles of the direction will remain the same, but they must be tailored to the facts and circumstances of the witness before the court. "
No judge would consider it proper to reach a conclusion about a witness's credibility based solely on the way that he or she gives evidence, at least in any normal circumstances. The ordinary process of reasoning will draw the judge to consider a number of other matters, such as the consistency of the account with known facts, with previous accounts given by the witness, with other evidence, and with the overall probabilities. However, in a case where the facts are not likely to be primarily found in contemporaneous documents the assessment of credibility can quite properly include the impression made upon the court by the witness, with due allowance being made for the pressures that may arise from the process of giving evidence. Indeed in family cases, where the question is not only 'what happened in the past?' but also 'what may happen in the future?', a witness's demeanour may offer important information to the court about what sort of a person the witness truly is, and consequently whether an account of past events or future intentions is likely to be reliable.
"… not all directive, assertive, stubborn, or selfish behaviour, will be 'abuse' in the context of proceedings concerning the welfare of a child; much will turn on the intention of the perpetrator of the alleged abuse and on the harmful impact of the behaviour."
"Judges are entitled, where the evidence justifies it, to make findings of fact that have not been sought by the parties, but they should be cautious when considering doing so."
Submissions
Threshold
Both the Mother and the Father have had social services involvement in respect of their older children:
- On the 28.01.18 care proceedings concluded in respect of the Mother's first child, 'E'. 'E was made subject to a Supervision Order to A CC and a Special Guardianship Order was granted to E's Paternal Aunt. Care proceedings were issued by the London Borough of Y due to concerns about the parents capacity to care for E due to the Mother's learning difficulties, domestic violence and illicit drug use.
- The Father's four oldest children were made subject to Child Protection Plans under the category of neglect in September 2020 by LB ZH.
- [F]'s 4 elder children are currently open to LB ZH children's social care Child Protection planning and pre-proceedings.
The children are at risk of neglect or other significant harm due to the parents' non-engagement with professionals:
- Neither parent attended the initial child protection conference on 21.09.21 where T was made subject to a child protection plan under the category of neglect.
- Neither parent attended the PLO meeting scheduled for 01.11.21.
- Neither parent attended the Review Child Protection Conference on 10.12.21.
- Neither parent attended the core group meetings on 28.09.21, 21.10.21 and 18.11.21.
- On or around 09.12.21, F attended the social workers office to inform the social worker that he did not want to work with social services.
- The Father denied his paternity of Z and, despite genetic testing confirming parentage, has never met Z. He has refused and/or failed to have contact with T since the Interim Care Order was made in January 2022.
- On or around 16.04.19, the Father assaulted the Mother by hitting her on the head with a saucepan lid.
- On or around 09.08.19, the Father kicked the Mother in the genital area.
- On or around 10.02.21, the parents attended a police station after a verbal argument. The Father had belittled the mother in front of T and his other children. The Mother was upset and screaming. T was present.
- The Father was at times controlling of the Mother during their relationship. At times, he would use denigrating and belittling language, utilising her learning needs as a means of exerting control.
- On or around 24.12.21 the Father unilaterally took T to his sister's house and refused to return her to the Mother. He would not assist the Mother access to T. The mother left the home and spent Christmas with her family from 24.12.21 until around 27.12.21.
- The relationship between the parents was one characterised by volatility, arguments and/or conflict, often in the presence of T. The conflict was to such an extent that on occasion the parents would attend the police station or call the police to the home and make allegations against one another. The mere fact of the police callouts and allegations demonstrates the level of conflict in the relationship, likely to cause and/or risk significant emotional harm to the children.
- The Mother was subject to the control of the Father, who did not wish to engage with the Local Authority. As a result, the Mother felt unable to properly engage
"There are strengths within the family. M and F have worked well with the social worker and health professionals. F's parents and M's adopted father and mother continue to support the family. M told today's conference that she recognises how different things are now compared to when she had E and F said that he does not recognise the M which was [d]escribed in assessments related to E which he has read. F is a supportive partner who makes her happy. He helps her, listens to her and is an involved father. M spoke about valued support from F's sister and mother. She is very much part of F's wider family. T is doted upon by the whole family. Positive attachment has been observed between T and her mother and she is very much loved by the parents and wider family. M is very attentive and attuned with her daughter. She has sought advice from the health visitor. The couple did not want to participate in the recommended parenting assessment and cognitive assessment. The local authority exited the Public Law Outline. M has completed 2 out of the planned 8 sessions and said she would continue. The health visitor reported that T is meeting her developmental milestone, M has sought advice in baby and completed a 6 week 1 st Mum's group. There have been no incidents involving the police during the review period. It is positive that there have been no concerns noted about the couple's relationship. F sees his 4 children from a previous relationship regularly. There have been no reports of M caring for all the children alone."
The Mother obtained a non-molestation order as against the Father on 5 December 2022. F failed to contest or respond to the Mother's application, despite being on notice of the same.
- On or around 9.12.21, F was aggressive towards staff including receptionist and duty Social Worker at Children's Services reception at XY House.
- On or around 1 January 2022, the Father actively resisted arrest at the parents' home, barging a police officer down the stairs with his left shoulder. The Father was further arrested, charged and convicted with assault on an emergency services worker.
- F has sent a number of threatening and/or aggressive emails to professionals including the children's allocated social worker. By way of example, in an email to the social worker on 10 December 2021, he wrote:
'I am asking all my ancestors to help me and give me the strength to stay strong and protect me from a demon like you. The pain pain pain what you cause me, you will receive the same pain and if you escape this pain, what you cause me. I pray to God to give you the strength to keep you strong for you to keep your children strong when the pain this pains!!!! what you cause me start to walk all over your children. You have course me pain pain pain!!!!!!!!. This pain what you bring to me, you shall receive it back 10 times stronger than the pain what you cause me in my life. God is not sleeping and the wicked shall not prevail. Amen… You shall feel my pain.'" (sic)
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