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You are here: BAILII >> Databases >> England and Wales High Court (Family Division) Decisions >> V (Children), Re [2016] EWHC B7 (Fam) (03 March 2016) URL: http://www.bailii.org/ew/cases/EWHC/Fam/2016/B7.html Cite as: [2016] EWHC B7 (Fam) |
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FAMILY DIVISION
NEWCASTLE-UPON-TYNE DISTRICT REGISTRY
IN THE MATTER OF THE CHILDREN ACT 1989
AND IN THE MATTER OF: V (CHILDREN)
The Quayside Newcastle-upon-Tyne NE1 3LA |
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B e f o r e :
(Sitting as a Judge of the High Court)
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Re: V (Children) |
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Counsel for the Mother: Mr J Brown
Counsel for the Father: Mr T Spain
Counsel for the Child: Mr J Gray
Hearing date: 3rd March 2016
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HIS HONOUR JUDGE SIMON WOOD:
(1) no judgment has yet been given by agreement in respect of the making of a care order as long ago as 29th September 2014, an order that was then not agreed but not formally opposed and is certainly no longer opposed; and(2) A has played a critical role in the lives and welfare of the three subject children and is a significant individual in their lives, being a very important factor in the welfare decision that has to be made going forwards.
(1) It would not be safe to return the children to the care of either their mother or father;(2) Whilst the paternal grandparents have been positively assessed as carers for the three subject children, nevertheless it would not be in their best welfare interests for the children to be placed with them.
"There is clear evidence that this sibling group have strong positive relationships with one another that have been maintained and possibly strengthened through their recent experience of adversity in a way that is not detrimental to their individual needs. When considering what siblings can provide for each other, both in the short and long term, this includes a shared sense of their past and of living together. Having a shared sense of the future enables continuity of identity. They can provide mutual support, a sense of belonging and close long-term attachments. Sibling relationships can compensate for poor attachment experiences with adult care givers, can protect against a negative environment and support the development of resilience and I think this is particularly pertinent for this sibling group. Indeed, they have the potential to be the longest lifetime relationships. Separating siblings can mean the loss of that lifelong relationship, support in adversity, a shared history and sense of kinship, continuity and rootedness, sources of knowledge about the family and resources for building identity.
It is clear that as the eldest of the sibling group, A has played an important role in his siblings' lives. He has held some degree of care-giving responsibility towards them. He took on a protective role after they moved to the United Kingdom and all of the younger siblings look up to him. A worries about whether his siblings will be looked after properly if they return to Lithuania and expressed how he would miss them and feel alone given his wish to remain in the United Kingdom. I think it is important to keep in mind the potential loss for A, both in terms of his own sense of family identity and of the emotional impact on him if his siblings move back to Lithuania. Despite his age and stage of development, he maintains a high level of commitment to contact with them that has been unwavering in the time that they have been living in foster care.
For B, in particular, his brother is very important to him and it seems he has been one of the few positive male role models in his life to date. He communicated he would feel very sad were he to be permanently separated from him. His sibling relationships more generally are central to his family identity and have I think arisen in the context where he has not been the focus of the care-giving adults. For C, A is important to her. She appears to be preoccupied with wanting a closer relationship with him, stating she feels he does not have enough time for her, although this will be related in part to their different ages and sexes. She also communicated that she would feel unhappy were she to be permanently separated from him. For D, A has been a key attachment figure in her life to date. Despite being able to relinquish his care-giving role appropriately since their reception into foster care, he remains a key positive relationship in her life".