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You are here: BAILII >> Databases >> England and Wales High Court (Family Division) Decisions >> RJ v CM [2018] EWHC 2509 (Fam) (24 July 2018) URL: http://www.bailii.org/ew/cases/EWHC/Fam/2018/2509.html Cite as: [2018] EWHC 2509 (Fam) |
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FAMILY DIVISION
On appeal from the Family Court at Bristol
HH Judge Harington
Royal Courts of Justice |
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B e f o r e :
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-IN THE MATTER OF THE CHILDREN ACT 1989 AND IN THE MATTER OF M (A CHILD) RJ |
Appellant | |
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CM | Respondent |
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PHILIP BAGGLEY (instructed by EPO Lawyers) appeared on behalf of the Respondent.
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MR. JUSTICE BAKER:
1. The first allegation was of controlling behaviour. It was said that the father pinched the mother's nipples during intimacy causing pain to the mother. The mother made it clear to the father that she did not consent to this and did not enjoy it. The father continued to manipulate the situation to carry on his behaviour. The father's response to this was that he denied the controlling behaviour. He accepted that the pinched the mother's nipples during intimacy but ceased this behaviour when she told him she did not like it.
2. The second allegation was controlling behaviour on an animal, in particular the mother's dog. That allegation was denied by the father who asserted that he treated the dog as a family pet and looked after him.
3. The third allegation concerned aggressive and intimidating behaviour towards the mother. It was alleged that the father would have explosive outbursts, sometimes punching the wall during arguments and on one occasion hurt his hand in the process. There was also a pattern of passive-aggressive behaviour, silent treatment, rolling his eyes, derogatory comments, sulking, blaming, stonewalling and causing emotional distress to the mother. The father's response was that he accepted that he had punched the wall in frustration but denied any aggressive or intimidating behaviour towards the mother. He asserted that the behaviour which the mother had alleged against him had in fact been carried out by her.
4. The fourth allegation was that the father had demonstrated aggressive behaviour around M about four times a week when he was struggling to get her to sleep, had shouted at her, punched a wall while holding her and stamped his feet in order to gain the attention of the mother. The father accepted that he had punched the wall in frustration but denied he had done this while holding the child or in her presence. He denied making derogatory comments towards the child.
5. The fifth allegation was that the father had roughly handled the child. It was said that he roughly put her in bed when he became frustrated, that she had regular bruises on her shins, thighs and knees, that she had cried when having her nappy changed and that he tickled her, causing her discomfort. It was denied by the father that he had roughly handled the child at any time. It was asserted that the child was like that having her nappy changed no matter who was doing it. He said that he tickled her and played with her as any normal parent would. In response to a suggestion that he behaved inappropriately while changing her nappy, he replied that he had tried to make nappy changing a less traumatic and upsetting time for the child by playing games.
6. The sixth allegation was that the father displayed controlling, manipulative and intimidating behaviour towards the child. It was said that he would restrain her when she wanted to get down from the table. It was said that he would deprive her of food during the night causing her to scream and would pretend to make himself cry in front of her and try to startle her. This was essentially denied by the father who said that he cared for the child as any engaged parent would.
7. Finally, it was asserted by the mother that she had found a dried substance between the child's thigh and vulva on one occasion in March/April 2017 when changing her nappy after the father had had sole contact with the child. The mother asserted that the substance had the appearance of dried semen. The father denied that the substance found on the child was his semen and believed there was some other explanation, such as nappy cream.
1. The mother shall make the child available to spend time with the father as follows.
(a) The father shall by 4.00 p.m. on 12 December via solicitors send photographs of himself which the mother should show to the child no later than 19 December.
(b) The father should send cards, letters, gifts by way of indirect contact via solicitors first during the week of 11 December and thereafter fortnightly.
(c) There should be direct contact for one hour on 23 December 2017 at 3.30 p.m. at a shopping centre in the town where the parties live. Such contact on this occasion to be supervised by either the mother or a third party identified by her who knows the child. It was further directed that the paternal grandparents would be able to attend.
(d) Facetime contact on 30 December 2017 at a time to be arranged.
1. Indirect contact by form of cards, letters and gifts to the child during contact sessions and on the child's birthday.2. Direct contact for one and a half hours from 3.30 every other Saturday at the shopping centre in the town where the parties live and any additional direct contact as agreed between the parties.
3. Facetime contact on 9.00 a.m. on a Sunday every alternate week plus such additional Facetime contact as the parties may agree.
The judge made further directions for a Cafcass report for future child arrangements.
"1. The respondent mother was absent from the hearing on 7 December 2017 as she was unable to organise childcare arrangements for her unwell child. The respondent mother provided sufficient evidence of the child's health in the form of photographs.
2. The court held that the mother was keen to conclude the hearing. The mother had given the court no other reason but based on previous court attendances to suggest that she was attempting to frustrate the process.
3. The mother's non-attendance was not beyond the bound of what was reasonable.
4. The mother had filed an application for an adjournment the day before the hearing. In any event, the court and the father's representatives had knowledge of the adjournment application. The father had suggested his parents as childminders but the mother had not felt that was appropriate given the length of time since they had seen the child and the child's ill health and vulnerability.
5. The mother has the right to a fair trial in accordance with Art.6 of ECHR and that would not occur in her absence.
6. On a procedural level, there has been a lack of continuity in proceedings contrary to the overriding objective. The previous order had stipulated the case was to be heard by the district judge. No reason was provided as to why the case was reallocated to the Circuit Judge on the day of the hearing. The judge had not had the opportunity to see or address the mother in the previous hearings she attended.
7. Where there was a lack of corroborating evidence to support the mother's allegations, the court has to assess the parents' credibility. No party gave oral evidence, the lack of corroborating evidence from the mother was noted many times in the judgment, therefore the court should have had the opportunity to assess the mother's credibility through cross-examination.
8. The court deemed the allegations taken at their highest were insufficient to prevent the father having direct or indirect contact. The mother submitted that it is not the promotion of contact but how that contact should take place that is the issue. The court made no findings against the father and therefore indicated that he is not a risk to M. The mother submitted that, given his acceptance of punching walls and stomping on the floor, and the fact that he was on antidepressants for stress, there was a concern that, were he to care for the child unsupervised or unsupported without a period of supervision, there would be problems in contact.
9. The court was wrong not to consider that the father had punched the wall or stamped on the floor in the child's presence. The court acknowledged the father accepted that he punched the walls and that he stamped on the floor but failed to recognise the mother's statement that he said he was stamping on the floor while trying to get M to sleep. This behaviour was deemed not to have an impact on the father's direct contact with the child.
10. The court was wrong to deem allegations made by the mother as 'bizarre' or 'exceptional' without hearing oral evidence from the mother and assessing the credibility.
11. The court was wrong not to believe that the father's behaviour amounted to controlling and coercive behaviour as recognised in the revised Practice Direction 12J.
12. During the judgment it was submitted there was no note of what mother's counsel said in respect of allegation six. It was submitted this was wrong as to the risks in respect of the father's startling behaviour towards the child and how there was finally a contention that he tried to make the child happy. This was not something which he asserted in his statement his behaviour actually achieved or what the child's reaction to his behaviour was."
1. Permission to appeal in respect of grounds one to six is refused. The decision to proceed with the hearing is well within the parameters of judicial discretion in relation to case management decisions. It cannot be said that the judge reached a decision that no judge properly directly himself could have reached the appeal as totally without merit in this respect.2. Permission to appeal was granted in respect of grounds of appeal paras.7-12. Having decided to proceed with the fact-finding hearing it is at least arguable that findings on the schedule should not have been made without hearing evidence from the parties, including giving the mother the opportunity to attend on the second day of the listed hearing.
"Domestic abuse and all its many forms and whether directed at men, at women or at children continues more than forty years after the enactment of the Domestic Violence and Matrimonial Proceedings Act, 1976 to be a scourge on our society. Judges and everyone else in the Family Justice system need to be alert to the problems and appropriately focused on the available remedies."
Transcribed by Opus 2 International Ltd. (Incorporating Beverley F. Nunnery & Co.) Official Court Reporters and Audio Transcribers 5 New Street Square, London EC4A 3BF Tel: 020 7831 5627 Fax: 020 7831 7737 [email protected] __________ **This transcript has been approved by the Judge (subject to Judge's approval)** |